The Future Is...Ours

"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah keadaan sesuatu kaum sebelum mereka mengubah keadaan diri mereka sendiri (Surah Ar-Ra'd: 11)

The School

Welcome to the school called marriage |♥

A school where you will never graduate, ...

A school without a break or a free period, ...

A school where no one is allowed to drop out, ...

A school which you will have to attend everyday of your life, ...

A school where there is no sick leave or holidays.

A school founded by God (Allah):

1. On the foundation of love,
2. The walls are made out of trust,
3. The door made out of acceptance,
4. The windows made out of understanding
5. The furniture made out of blessings
6. The roof made out of faith

♥ Before you forget, you are just a student not the principal, 
God (Allah) is the Principal.

Even in times of storms,
don't be unwise and runoutside, 
remember this school is the safest place to be.

Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day.

Never forget the C-word, 
Communicate, communicate, communicate
to your classmate and to the Principal (Allah). ♥

If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate, 
remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate,
God is not finished with him/her yet.

♥ So take it as a challenge and work on it together. ♥
Do not forget to study, study, study your Qur'an And Hadith (the only two main textbooks in this school).

Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way. ♥

Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.

♥ When tempted to quit, find courage and continue. ♥

Some tests and exams may be tough but remember the Principal (Allah) knows how much you can bear.

♥ But still the school is better than any other. ♥

It is one of the best schools on earth; joy, peace and happiness accompany each lessons of the day.

♥ Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject. ♥

After all the years of Theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it.

♥ To be loved is a good thing, but to love is a greatest privilege of them all. Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse!

The feeling will go on..

Alhamdulillah, in these couple of days, i had beautiful moment. Such a miracle. Like nobody who does not own anything. Maybe this is right. What people may say, sometimes can become irrational due to the uncertain of ideas, to us. Maybe this is what I called "CHALLENGE" of the life. If life without challenge, it better not to live in this world. Dont you think so? =)

Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad saw): “Sama ada kamu sembunyikan apa yang di dalam hati kamu atau kamu nyatakan namun, Allah tetap mengetahuinya; dan Dia (Allah) mengetahui apa yang di langit dan di bumi. Dan Allah atas segala sesuatu adalah al-Qadir (Maha Kuasa).” Ali-Imran, 29

"Whether you conceal what is in your breasts or reveal it, Allah knows it. And He knows that which is in the heavens and that which is on the earth. And Allah is over all things competent.

Heart is the organ that pumps blood to all parts of the body system. Circulation of the bloods, the flow of the blood, really amazing. Continuously moving nonstop even one second. The heartbeat starts when we are known as fetus, which our age is around 2-3 weeks. Up until now, it is still beating. Can you imagine how many pumps/beats, the heart makes for us since we are fetus until now, the time you're reading this? =) Maybe it is around two million beats. Ok, we are not going to preach about the heart, but what is the real contains of the heart? Get your mind jam..

It is a 'FEELING' absolutely. Oh, ok, The Holy verse above is for this content. Not the heart part content. Everyone has that kind of thing. We call it a feeling. What is feeling resembles for? It is subjective which cannot be physically either touch or feel, formed or shaped, and it is all about the feeling. No ones can tell what is feeling for. The exact meaning of the feeling. As for today, two of my friends, got a chance to read a part of my 'heart'. A man and a female.

The male asked me, " Do you still have any feeling towards her?"  "No. I dont feel any.It is over few months past.How can I feel the past feeling by stating what you've read it in my 'heart'? I replied. "Ok, sure then. I wont ask you anymore."
Thanks pal. The girl that I keen the most, is one of my friend's. I become the best friend with the guy. Under one roof of course. And yet, he still claiming, "she and me, dont have nothing worth between us". Oh, okay. There is an opportunity for me. But, I dont like that kind of chance. Let bygones be bygones. She is kind of pious girl, have muslimah appearance, and yeah, good-looking and cold-looking. Cold-looking?? haha. I think the best phrase for this is, when we take a look of someone,  oh, the feeling of melting? haha. Nope, the feeling of wanting to make her as the mother for our children in the future. Am I correct? Well done! =D

Well, i dont really feel desperate in finding the best partner of my life, but I am really sure, one day, I will successfully find my beloved-to-be person. When there is a will, there is a way. Effort must be applied, if not, how can load can be lifted? =D

a man who is thinking..